The Name Game

I realize its hard to believe, especially because I'm such a planner, but no, we do not have names picked out for these children. I never pictured myself to be a "wait & see" type of mom, but as it turns out, I am. I just can't even think about deciding on a name until I see the little bugars. So for all of you speculating that we really have them picked out & are keeping them a secret-- its just not true. We really don't know! Some of you have mentioned personalized gifts & I'm so sorry I can't help you out there now-- but hopefully you won't have to wait much longer! I'm really hoping & praying that it only takes us a couple of days to figure it out once they are here. So again, to stave off disappointment, you will most likely not find out their names when the first email is sent out announcing their birth because we will still not know!

On that note, one thing stressing me out (besides an indecisive husband) is the fact that I don't have longer lists of name ideas. I don't think we need 50 but I'd like to have 5 for each or something! The reason it makes me nervous we only have a couple of ideas is if none of those feel right now, what if they still don't once we see them & we're not prepared with any others! So inspired by my friend Darbee, who is having her baby in 6 weeks, I'm going to ask for some help. I would like suggestions. Keep in mind, I'm way less picky but I am married to Sam Oldroyd so there's like a 99.9% chance that we wouldn't actually use your idea. But we might! Maybe something will pop out to us! So for that slight possibility, especially if you're family & planning on more kids, don't give us an idea you wouldn't want us to use. Also, to give you an idea on our taste, we're not super traditional but not extreme either. If for nothing else, this will save me from going through those !@#$ name books with every weird & unusable name known to man. (I seriously can't get past the "B's").

Comment away!!!

Comments

Anonymous said…
I know how hard it is to pick names so I thought I'd give my two cents. I like the names Preston and Bryce but that's just me!:) I really have a hard time with boys names for some reason. It took forever to come up with those for my boys.

Since I had Makayla not so long ago, I'll give you the ones that we decided against: Deveny, Addisyn, Olivia, Kayla, Lauren, Jenna, Allysa, Keira, Jade, Kaley,and Callie.

Hope you guys can figure out what you're looking for! It's always a tough decision with names. I hate those baby name books as well. I used to look in books, the credits after movies, and newspapers to find names I liked. We also looked at lakes, rivers, national parks(hence the name Bryce from Bryce Canyon) and I got Makayla's name from the show Dr.Quinn Medicine Woman from the early nineties. Preston's middle name is Colter and that came from a store in Jackson, WY. Just look around and keep your ears open. Good luck!
Girl Idea: Brittan
(We all know you love visiting England!)

Boy Ideas: Kempton or Raleigh

Sending you hugs...
Bekah said…
How fun!

Boy names (I know you saw our list on my blog when we were deciding what to name Chase): Thatcher, Graham, Collin, Max, Liam, Cole, Justin,Finn, Gage.

Girl names: Paige, Ava, Jenna, Isabel, Olivia, Ashlyn, Jada, Leah, Brenna, Sage.

I know some of mine are a little weird, I'm just trying to give you options! Good luck! Naming kids is the hardest -- can't wait to see what you choose!
For girls we liked: Evelyn, (old fashion and sooo cute) Meredith (my mom's name-LOVE it- Brad wouldn't budge.) Bonnie, Kate, Abigail, and Heidi. We ended up with Addison, which annoyingly is pretty popular now.

We didn't have many boy names, but we like Thomas-don't love Tom though. And Jack my grandpas name...but my sister took it. My nephews are Nathan, which is darling, Carson, Jack and James.

Good luck!
chelsea said…
we are struggling with names now too. i wanted to just share a couple of tips of where we find names. pedigree charts are like gold to us. there's all these different names and there's a family significance, but it's not as many names as a book. i really like using last names for first names because it's slightly unusual but not totally weird. my mom's maiden name is clarke and they named my brother that. i really like it, but we won't use that. it worked for ashby too! good luck and seriously there's no hurry, i like your idea of having a couple names for each baby and then deciding when they get here!
Anonymous said…
My only advice as far as names go is this... I know you are wanting to wait and see what they look like first *and I do understand where you are coming from) but kep in mind that newborns kinda all look the same...red, blotchy, squinched up (if that's even a word) :), etc. Especially the smaller that they are. I remember looking at Savannah after she was born and thinking...of my, she so doesn't look like what I was picturing my Savannah to look like. Greg thought the same thing. Well, several months and I mean several months later she changed so much and is totally "The Savannah" Greg and I had in mind. ope that all made sense. :) Basically my point is I would personally use names that you really like or that have sentimental meaning, etc. B/c babies looks change so much!! Kylie and Savannah look NOTHING like they did as babies... especially when they were just these little newborns. Just a thought I was having after we got off the phone the other day and had this whole conversation about names. I was going to call you back and tell you, but didn't want to confuse you more or offer advice that you weren't asking for. But since you asked...that's my advice. :) We can't wait to hear the names you picked!! Love ya!
Kimi said…
Hi Alisha! I found your blog on the Viewmont 2000 site. You look great and congrats on the TWINS! Wow! What a great adventure. My husband and I are planning to move to Texas next year. How do you like it? Congrats again!!
Ally said…
Naming children is the hardest thing I have ever done! If you'd like I can ask my daughter, Kassie. She named our last baby - Savannah Grace. I wanted to name her Grace but when she was born it just wasn't fitting. Alex and Kassie came to see her with a list of 100 or more names on a paper that they had done at school! So cute. Anyway, she looked at her and said we should name her Savannah. Jokingly I said what about Savannah Grace and they all clapped and cheered! So there you have it.... Too bad you don't have older children to help you out! I knew both the older girls names before they were born so that was easy for me. Now Connor, my son, on the other hand went home and was nameless for 7 days until the hospital called and said they were sending in the birth certificate wihtout a name if I didn't give them one...I just said fine, put down Connor Wyatt. And now he couldn't have another name. Whatever you choose will be just fine! You'll figure it out. :)

Use some family names on them when they are born and see if they stick. We tried that with Connor, we called him a different name ever day to see what would be best.

Good luck. Hang in there! Love, Allyson
Craner Family said…
Rex Qwando....wink, wink...
Hi Alisha,

I had forgotten you had a blog and just received an email update the other day. It was fun getting caught up on how you, Sam and the babies are doing.

You were asking about baby names and I realized that as nursery leader I am sitting on a gold mine of possibilities! The good thing is that these are some of the best names figured out by your peers and since they have already used them, by the time your little ones get into the nursery their kids will all be sunbeams or older and the names ...for obvious reasons will not be used by them or anyone closely related to them again. Which makes them unique and fresh again.

The girl names are: Jennifer, Kayla, Lexi (Alexis), Tatum, Olivia, Naomi, Noel, Charlotte, Makinzi, Brynn Hannah, and Allisa.

The boy names are: Evan, Dean, Benson, Daniel, Elijah, Joshua, Sam, Caden, Gavin, Owen, Aaron, Gabe, Sawyer, Grant and Jackson.

Course if these names don't work out feel free to use my grand children's names: Benson Michael, Grace Colleen and Sabrina Beth.

I am also including the names my nieces and nephews have recently used. They are also your peers and live all over the country so it gives you a nice selection.

Girls: Carlee, Ella Jane, Amelia Mae, Aynslee, Claire, Callie, and Brooklin.

Boys: Drew, Garret, Trenton, Truman, Mason, Dallin, William, Calvin, Nathan, Jacob, Brock, and Zachary and Finn.

Good luck and we wish you the best in the days and weeks ahead.

Kathy Richards
Melanie Rossi said…
Oh how fun, I love putting in my 2 cents!

Here's my opinion about trendy names and keep in mind, have 2 girls with trendy names (Sydney and Raegan), I just wish now that I had gone with a little more traditional names for 1 main reason, I don't want their names to sound old when they get old! Like my grandmother Ida and Jared's grandma Mildred and Jared's grandfather Orville, i'm sure at the time, they sounded really cute and trendy, but now they just sound like old fashioned names and I hate that because I would have loved to name my kids after their grandparents, but I couldn't because their names are terrible! So anyway, that's my humble opinion about that!

My favorite traditional names:
-Samuel (it's my grandad's name and I love it, I probably should have named Luke that)
-Nathan (love Nate)
-Daniel
-Charles
-William (Will)

I honestly don't have any girl favorites, it's easier to think of trendy girl names I like! Good luck!
Wow looks like you wont have to read a baby name book just your comments. I don't have any suggestions but.... I had a hard time before kenidee was born it is not like a fish or a dog that you can name goldie or spot. the name you give them has to fit them and they have to live with it... but when we went into the hospital we had two names Katelyn and Kenidee, and when she was born I just knew her name would be Kenidee. I look at her now and say Katelyn in my head and It is sooo not her. Dont stress it will come to you and you will know that you pick the right name.
Amy said…
As your sister-in-law I must say out of the list so far the only name you can not use is Graham (sorry Bekah!)! haha just kidding, but this little boy maybe named Graham, but you are having them first and Ryan and I are so indecisive. I know its stressful, but its weird how a name just comes so don't worry.
Some boy names around here that I never though of are Kai, Lincoln, Easton, Gary, Tate, Ty, Preston, Conrad, Stetson, some are weird I know but there are some for a variety.
Girl names Delaney, Vivian Lee, Amelia, Lucy (old fashion, but I decided I love it), There are more boys than girls where I live.
GOOD LUCK! Can't wait to hear about tomorrow!!!
Darbee said…
Alisha,
Good luck with the name thing. It is SO hard! You already know the names I love for my babies... but some others I LOVE, but my hubby wouldn't stand for are:

Girls:
Lily, Ava, Olivia, Brighton, Emma, Hadyn

Boys:
Hadyn, Carter, Cache, Sawyer, Cruise, Bentley
Good Luck! I'm excited to find out what you decide!

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